hen two people Crush each other they can instantly chat… but you have to have a picture in your profile to meet people and chat. Once you upload a picture you can use Crush or Flush on your computer by clicking Start Crushin' or get Crush or Flush sent to your phone.
Hit Crush if you like someone, want to hang out, be friends, hook up… whatever.
Hit Flush if you don’t like someone. They’ll never know you flushed them so no hard feelings.
3 Tell a Friend
Use Tell a Friend to send a picture profile as a text message to your friends. Your friends will get a text message and can then Crush or Flush™ the person - even if she isn’t signed up yet.
4 Personal Details
Click personal details to check out what members have to say about themselves. You can also hit ‘4’ on your cell key pad instead of clicking the link.
5 Find & Filter
Choose who you are looking for by sex, age and location. You can also find out who has a Crush on you by clicking ‘Who Crushed Me ’. You’ll see a list of everyone who has a Crush on you. You can also hit ‘5’ on your cell key pad instead of clicking the link.
6 My Profile
Edit your info - picture, tags, personal description, etc. You can also find your mutual crushes here by clicking the View friend’s link. You can also hit ‘6’ on your cell key pad instead of clicking the link.
7 Snag a Tag
Hit Snag a Tag if you find someone else’s tag that you wish you had. The next screen will display all their tags. Click on the tag you’d like to snag. You’ve got 8 slots for tags (nobody likes a blabber mouth) so if your slots are full, you’ll need to drop a tag to add a new one. You can also hit ‘7’ on your cell key pad instead of clicking the link.
Check your messages to see a list of all the people who you have chatted with. Chat works like e-mail and IM. You can send messages back and forth without being online and you will see a running conversation with each person so you know where you left off last. This means no more tellin' the same joke twice. You can also hit ‘8’ on your cell key pad instead of clicking the link.